As with most choices in life, there are pros and cons that result from your choice. Dating is no exception. Here are few dating pros and cons for you to think about.
The positive side of dating is that it gives you the chance to: go out and have some fun, learn about your friends, learn to appropriately relate to the opposite sex, become a good listener and talker, learn what you want and do not want in a future spouse, and learn to consider the feelings of another.
It should come as no surprise that there are a wide range of negative aspects to dating. Youth who date at a young age are more likely to become sexually active. Youth who date too young tend to stop communicating with their parents, closing the door to a vital relationship in their lives. Not dating at all or group dating are the best and easiest way to remain abstinent. Dating can cause unnecessary stress and distract you from your studies, dreams and goals. Dating can put you in an intimate relationship long before you are ready. Dating can lead to hasty choices that lead to STDs and unwanted pregnancies.
Now it is commonly held that dating in university is acceptable, which has become a hot point under discussion. Some people hold the opinion that students should put their study in the first place. Besides, fall in love with someone could causes extra spending, which is a burden for students and their parents. While others argue that dating could be good for students.
For one thing, dating could help student learn how to be more socialize. Now the phenomenon is not rare to see that students only show up in classroom, dormitory and refectory, this triangle model makes students have less chance to make now friends that will probably lead to social apathy. For that reason, we should approve of dating in university, so that students could have more motive power to go out to find someone who is fit in them. Obviously, the ability of socialize will be promoted by o**osis.
For another, there is an old saying which goes that men and women with the work and not tired. It is true that when a couple work or study together, they will feel less exhausted, because we always want to show our best side to the one we love. Besides, student couple study together is more efficient, for they have the same target and they will encouraged each other.
Taking all these factors into account, we should approve of dating in university. It could make college life more vividly, enrich student’s life style and help them to be more socializing.
1楼的居然把莎士比亚的十四行诗说成是意大利传统诗，非常奇怪！
Love and Learning
Some college teachers argue that students should give up love for the sake of learning. They maintain that love is time-consuming and tears students away from learning梥tudents' main task. If a student falls in love, he will certainly neglect his studies and cannot catch up with his class.
Students, however, hold that forbidding love affairs among college students is not good. They take for example some of their friends who, falling in love, study harder and make greater progress in order to please their girl (or boy) friends. Some one else, on the contrary, who has not fallen in love, cannot concentrate on learning.
In my opinion, as a coin has two sides, love can be positive and negative. If you do not give yourself away in love but take it as a drive, you will make more progress in your learning and achieve much. But if you forget everything else except love, then you will become a "perfect" lover and a definite loser in your studies.
Love in university campus, we have It is quite common for.
首先，我要说一下大学生恋爱的现状。
First of all, I want to say about the situation of College Students' love.
1、恋爱年龄小，从大一就开始盛行了；
1, love is the age of **all, popular from the start;
2、恋爱公开化，和高中时期不同，现在的我们都喜欢将自己的男（女）朋友公之于众，国家都允许大学生结婚，学校怎么还会管这么多；
2, love the open, and in high school, now we all love your male (female) friends toreveal to the public, countries allow college students to get married, how can so many school tube;
3、恋爱成活率低，悲剧增多。由于大学缺乏经济基础和未来的一定性，恋爱走入婚姻的机率较低。有部分大学生不会处理学业和恋爱的关系，爱情至上，厌学、旷课现象增多，严重的甚至不能顺利毕业，耽误了自己的美好前程。也有的大学生社会阅历浅，心理承受能力弱，而期望值又高，易冲动，一旦失恋或受到打击，往往造成爱情悲剧。伤害对方的有之；**的有之；精神分裂的有之；厌恶俗世、破罐破摔的亦有之。因此，我们需要理性的认识大学恋爱。
3, the low survival rate of increase of love, tragedy. Due to the lack of economic foundation and a qualitative University future, love marriage low probability. Some students can not deal with academic and love relationship, love first, increasedweariness, truancy phenomenon, serious can't even graduate, delayed his bright future. Also some social experience shallow, the psychology bearing capacity is weak, and expectations are high, easy impulse, once the romance or hit, often caused the tragedy of love. Hurt each other with the Dutch act; have;schizophrenia is earthly, Poguanposhuai; aversion to also have. Therefore, we need a rational understanding of love in the university.
我要说一下大学生恋爱的利弊。就个体而言，恋爱对青年的心里成熟有着促进的作用，有些心理学家认为，恋爱是青春晚期和成年早期最重要的事件，只有经过了恋爱，人才会真正成熟起来。不过，恋爱的意义虽有积极的一面，有时也会危害青年的心理健康。恋爱中的起起伏伏造成了心理上的大起大落，承受的压力可想而知，在座的各位有些人一定也森有体会。
I have to say about the advantages and disadvantages of College Students' love.Individually, love has a promoting effect on young heart mature, some psychologists say, love is a late adolescence and early *****hood, the most important event, only through love, people will truly mature. However, the meaning of love is a positive side, sometimes harm youth mental health. The love of the ups and downs caused change radically the psychological pressure to bear, one can imagine, all of you present here some people must also have experience of Sen.
大学生恋爱是一把双刃剑，既有优点，又有缺点。我们应该让它的有利影响变大，不利影响减到最小。
College Students' love is a double-edged sword, has both advantages, and disadvantages. We should let its beneficial effects become larger, adverse effectsto a minimum. 《转载》
Nowadays, it’s very common to see that some university students fall in love at campus. Most of the time, they do everything together. They have meals together, study by themselves in free time at classroom together and so on. But some of them behave closely at public occasion. Even they embrace or kiss at public place. In their opinion, love can be regarded as a drive in their studies, and they study even harder with the help of their boyfriend or girlfriend. And some of their thoughts are very laughable and childish. They see their friends or clas**ates fall in love. Then they also want to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend.
However, most teachers and parents maintain that love will negatively influence university students. They think that university students are not mature enough. They will no longer concentrate on their study once they fall in love.
I think university students should approach love carefully. First, as a student, our main duty is study. University is different from middle school and other training schools. It is a freedom place. It likes a **all society. You can have more spare time, but you should learn how to manage yourself. No one will to retrain you anytime. So in the free environment, you can study a lot of knowledge and master them. Having a love affair will occupy some of our studying time. As we know, the time is limited for us. And studying at campus may be the last chance which we accept higher education. It is very precious. So we must value the rare opportunity. And we must learn knowledge and our attitudes towards life as much as possible for our future.