As a result of adaptation problems, relationship problems, it is more common for students, especially the bedroom relationships. As between the different living habits and mutual misunderstandings, resulting in students living in the community feel particularly uncomfortable. Some students are very distressed by isolation roommate: "I do not know why, maybe I do not pay attention to his manner of speaking. I felt we started talking to me sarcastically; Which if I do not intend to say the students, everyone together to help her. I feel very depressed, think back to the dorm does not mean fear of wrong things cause more trouble. So get up very early every day, carrying bags to the classroom to read, dormitory late at night, sometimes Even if not look, do not want to dorm to stroll down the playground, around and around, it is estimated only about a dormitory lights. "antithesis of those students are living in sad:" We are a student dormitory too, but she has now been isolated, but now I feel very depressed, because the atmosphere is not good quarters, the formation of confrontation. In fact, I think students who are not useless, but also want to speak to her, but we do not ignore her, if I take the initiative and she is good, as is bound to have caused the results are not ignored by everyone. "There are some students, even without this, also felt in the quarters is not very happy:" We are between quarters can and no arguments, but we are very polite, no words to say, I feel very boring. "This may be new problems are likely to encounter. How to deal with this problem, straighten out the relationship between the students with the hostel it?
First, we must address this problem, look for the problems themselves and the impact on interpersonal relationships quarters. Their living habits, such as whether the inconvenience to others? The adequacy of their words and deeds? If nothing wrong with it, you can adjust your habits; change their way of speaking to other people accept and understand manner.
Second, for more communication and more communication. Do not avoid because we have misunderstood the exchange and communication, and should take the initiative to communicate with everyone involved in our discussions and activities. The only way to better understand themselves and others, to eliminate misunderstanding between them, to strengthen mutual understanding and trust.
Third, broad-minded and more understanding and tolerant of others. Students should be a new era of the Sea, more than absorb other people's advantage; the shortcomings of others, should be more understanding and tolerance. Normal life for some trivial disputes arise, do not be too heart, the forgotten of the forgotten, the forgiveness forgiveness, reconciliation, the reconciliation, do not be too heart. The so-called "big **art, stupid little things", the limited energy to do the main things, for example, do a good job for their own learning.
Again, be true to others. As the saying goes: "All things are difficult reap." Only seeding sincere, true to self, others will be harvested in good faith. Because people unconscious in compliance with "interpersonal reciprocity" principle, you bare the extent of good faith will be rewarded. Some people are afraid to see their own shortcomings by others will affect your heart in someone else's image. Psychological research shows that: people do not like to be perfect in all aspects of a person, but rather is an outstanding performance in all aspects and there are some **all drawback of the most popular. So you do not care too much about their own shortcomings, this point should have enough confidence.
Finally, from the heart to praise others. Learn to appreciate and praise others, to at least make people feel comfortable to say the words, such as: "You're great!" You're hair looks good! "The words of praise like Yang who will be fun, and cause a positive emotional response. Emotions are contagious, that will be tran**itted to the people around to bring happiness all around." Happiness ", it will melt interpersonal impasse, so the bedroom becomes a harmonious relationship.
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十年前,十六七岁的我们在师范校园里相遇,相识。那时的你活泼,开朗,热情,乐于助人。我有了不会做的数学题，你总是不厌其烦的讲给我听，生活中有什么困难，你总是鼎立相助。很快，我们成了很好的朋友。
清楚的记得,那是一个大雪纷飞的冬日。我们正等着考最后一门试,考完就可以回家过年了,真是高兴。你的座位在我前面,开考前,你转过身和我讨论了几道可能考的习题之后,笑吟吟的对我说:“寒假后,我会给你写一封信,很长很长的一封信,你留心收信。”“好啊。”我没有在意,顺口回答。你又说:“今天考完试别回家,明天再回家好吗?”
我抬起头,看到了你那双明亮的满含期待的眼睛,顿时心如鹿撞,砰砰直跳。
“好啊。”我淡淡一笑.
考完试后的整个下午,我坐在宿舍窗前,看着漫天飞舞的雪花,心情又紧张又激动。上师范一年半了，正是十七八岁的妙龄年华，春心萌动再自然不过。如果棋对我表白，我该接受还是拒绝。棋是个好男孩，可我总觉得他身上缺点什么……
思绪纷乱了整整一个下午,可那是怎样的一个结果呢？
夜幕终于降临了。棋也敲开了我们宿舍的门,但他身后还有一个人,是棋的好朋友，我们班的体育健将,高高大大,傲气冲天的大男子汉——周。
那个下着大雪的夜晚,我和周漫步在县城的每一条街道。我们边走边聊,都有些拘谨。毕竟,那是十八年来我们第一次单独和异性相处,心里都非常的紧张,常常走了好一段路,却不知该说些什么。但我的心是快乐的。我喜欢周,喜欢他高高的个子,喜欢他运动场上奋力拼搏的样子,喜欢他在学习上的聪慧无比,喜欢他的大男子气……
我的初恋就这样开始了。
柳枝轻拂着水面，我又想爷爷了。小时候在坝上的亭子上玩，帽子被风吹进了水里，我不敢告诉妈妈，拉来了爷爷后急的大哭。爷爷不慌不忙地折了一枝长树枝，在水面上不停地向岸边滑动，帽子便随着荡起的涟漪一点一点的靠向岸边。爷爷弯腰捡起湿漉漉的帽子，满是皱纹的脸笑成了一朵花，还记得他说，丫头，再哭帽子又要被眼泪冲走喽。
我的童年行走在去果园的小路上。那是充满回忆的一条路。我和爷爷最美的记忆散落在小路的每一朵小花，每一株小草里。学写字的年纪，走累了便停下来，随便找枝小树枝在地上写写画画。还记得爷爷教我写“花”字时，他写的“花”字的草字头是两个并列的“十”字。上了幼儿园之后，老师也教我们写“花”字，我为了草字头的事和老师争论了半天。
秋天收苹果的时候，爷爷便住在果园里一处不足10平米的小山屋里。那时我不止一次地问，晚上一个人不会怕吗。爷爷总是一遍一遍地摇头，怕什么，有那么多的苹果树呢。他的眼睛看向那些缀满了苹果的果树，眼睛里有我看不懂的东西。多年后的我才明白，那是一种对生活的期许。爷爷不能再管理果园了，70多岁的爷爷把小山屋的钥匙交给了妈妈。钥匙的齿牙已经被磨的圆滑，也许是真的在爷爷手里呆的太久了吧。十年后，山屋的木门上已经没有一片玻璃，生了锈的锁再也插不进那把光滑的钥匙。我站在门外向山屋里看，墙上还有以前为了放油灯而挖的洞。我已经忘了，有多少年没有再踏进小山屋。每次站在山屋的外面观望那不足10平米的黑暗的一角，我都会想起和爷爷度过的那些日子，很平淡，很平淡。而那条通往果园的小路上，有我的青春走不出的绵长。
长大后的我再也回不到和爷爷一起去捉萤火虫的时光，我不再是当年那个不懂事的丫头，那条小路两旁的山屋盖成了别墅，果树因为年龄太大不再结果，爷爷再也没有力气背起现在的我。有时候很感伤，却不会太哀伤。那些美好的东西从来不会成为遗憾的理由。这是我写过的最真实的青春。这是我写过的最朴素的故事。这是我写过的最难忘的记忆。
晒晒我的舍友们
想来只有我这宿舍比较特殊吧。从搬进去 到现在已经有四个月了，昨天师兄请吃 饭，得以和各位师兄畅快一番聊天。
这个宿舍从分宿舍开始，没有人愿意住进 去，即使是抓阄的，也不愿进去，我就搬 进去了（这个说明一下，我既不是别人说 的超级SB，也不是虚伪装清高（TNND，这样说的人，你来和我换换），没有别 的空床，我也就只能搬进去了）。
我们宿舍是5人间（现在住着5 个人，三 个博士师兄，一个博士后，外加我一个硕 士二年级）。平时师兄比较忙，晚上都是 我睡着他们回来休息，早上起床发现他们 又走了。平时也有碰着面的时候，但是却 没有北理工两个博士那样的境地，晚上回 来晚的时候，早上起来都是很轻的洗漱， 不会吵到别人。
师兄是博士后，北师大博士毕业，为人谦 和，待人热情，他和我交流最多，也是给 我指导最多，是一副大哥的关怀和照顾。 宿舍最早休息最早起的。
师兄是最早和我聊天的师兄，每天都很勤 恳的科研，作息规律好，晚上热水泡脚时 还不忘看会平凡的世界。每天早上起来去 某单位参与项目，晚上回来投入自己科 研，晚上很少有在12 ：30前回宿舍。
师兄也是平时和我见面的师兄，每次见到 他，他都是满脸笑容，让人心情很好，他 是一个乐观的博士，事情看得比较开。
师兄是最勤勉的，每天都是在1：30 后 回宿舍，早上也是早起的，更重要的是， 他的科研周末也是这样作息的，除了几次 和师兄说说外，很少有怨言。他是给我启 迪最深的，他的心境修为是最高的境界的 吧。
这样的宿舍，你有过经历吗？我为有这样的舍友骄傲，向他们学习和致敬！